{"product_id":"the-mother-factor-how-your-mothers-emotional-legacy-impacts-your-life","title":"The Mother Factor: How Your Mothers Emotional Legacy Impacts Your Life","description":"\u003cp\u003eWhether we acknowledge it or not, our mothers leave an indelible impression on the persons we become. Our ability to function emotionally in relationships  both personal and professional  is based on our mothers deep influence. In a book full of insights and wisdom based on a career of helping others, acclaimed psychologist Stephan B. Poulter shows how the mother factor can work either for or against us. The key to allowing this important legacy to work for us, says Dr. Poulter, depends on understanding our mothers pervasive influence on our life. He shows that the way we connect emotionally in adult relationships is based on the style of our mothers.Dr. Poulter defines the five major styles of mothering as:The Perfectionist Motherwhose family must look perfect in every wayThe Unpredictable Motherwhose ups and downs can create lifelong anxiety and depression in her son or daughterThe Me First Motherwhose children come second or lastThe Best Friend Motherwhos now in vogue but can wreak havocThe Complete Motherwho provides guidance and shows compassion to her child.Although most mothers are a combination of the above, many fit more into one category than others. Even though as adults, we tend to dismiss our past as the past, we do so at risk to ourselves. Only by understanding how our mothers legacy affects us today can we transcend the mysterious anger, anxiety, depression, and shame that we feel, and achieve the kind of relationships we deserve.Dr. Poulter demonstrates how the internalized rulebook we inherit from our mothers is a very powerful force. These unspoken rules govern work, relationships, emotions, separation, and independence. Unless we become aware of the rules that guide our behavior, thoughts, and beliefs, we wont have the ability to make our own choices. This enlightening book will help readers connect with their past to correct selfdefeating behaviors, reach their full emotional potentials, and live happier, more fulfilling lives.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Prometheus","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":45899484627142,"sku":"DADAX1591026075","price":22.33,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0695\/9389\/1014\/files\/81Voe_kXphL.jpg?v=1780298677","url":"https:\/\/ergodemedia.com\/products\/the-mother-factor-how-your-mothers-emotional-legacy-impacts-your-life","provider":"Ergodemedia","version":"1.0","type":"link"}